Tis the season to set those boundaries. Holiday gatherings or the New year, do something for you. Take the high road, but-don’t allow people get away in inappropriate behavior,comments . If it crosses your boundary,employee,family member to you. Do not write them a permission slip to carry on with unacceptable , inexcusable behavior.If you don’t shut it down and set those boundaries, its on you at that point. Take control of what you want and don’t want.Some of the best advise I received is “” My response is my responsibility” Also I never said it was easy, take baby steps and it will come easy to you!